If a ex girlfriend wants you back is it bc she want u bake or she want the thing she gave me back help me out?

but she says she want them back befor she came back but i really do miss even after all the hell she put me thou but i dont want to hand it to her and then she runs off i get nothing but then i dont want to not hand it to her and not tak the chans she really stays she say if i gave it to her she wont be mad like she was at me and we can gave it a try and try to be happy agin so i need your help